I was listening to Dr. Laura today and I am always so enthralled as to what she has to say to her callers and of course to all of us listening in. I find the general thread is to let all of us women know that we must stop acting like little children, throwing tantrums when we don't get our way with our men! Be nice to our husbands, let them know how wonderful they are, appreciate them and love them. Coming from a family dominated by men and now my own family that is dominated by men, I have to agree with this. Men have very tender feelings and they get ignored quite often. Plus, it is interesting how women don't realize that what they say at times can hurt them and cause them to get upset too!!
So, Dr. Laura really gets after the women, which to me is a switch. I usually hear the men getting the lectures. I love the fact that women when using their sweet, kind natures will get a lot more out of their men, then if they gripe or complain or push them to do something they don't feel comfortable with. Well anyhow, just listen to her sometime.
I love the fact my grand daughters love their uncles and their grandpa! And those men thrive on it!!
Even the influence of a little girl shows early on with their fathers and their male family members. I know my husband treated Lara much different than our sons, so that must be the inate behavior that comes from a father interacting with his beautiful daughter. Something to it, don't you think?
So a word to all of us women, treat all men with love and kindness and I think we will be so surprised at the power we have to get what we really want and that is adoration.
Kiss, kiss, hug hug!